There are moments—hours, minutes, maybe even seconds—in time that define you, define your whole life. You can almost feel the earth shift beneath your feet as everything changes, shifts around you to accommodate your new reality. In short: sometimes life is a bitch. It’s so much more complicated than that, though. I drop my head against the headrest and squeeze my eyes shut. The AC is turned to max, blowing blissfully frigid air through the car’s overheated interior and pushing back the sweltering summer heat. It isn’t the temperature outside that has me hot—burning alive. Instead, it’s my memories, the…